A New Month A New Weigh In

The first Saturday of the month. If you’ve been following me for a while, you know what that means. It’s time for weigh in at the weekly meeting of the #satuday7amsocialclub AKA Weight Watchers. This is the second month in a row that I have had a gain of a couple of pounds. I am still well below goal, but I can’t keep this up and stay there for long!

I have to tell you I’m still no sure how much it is the increase in weightlifting how much is what I’m doing food wise. I went into last week pretty sure I was going to be around the same as last month. I had come to terms with that gain (somewhat).

When I weighted myself on Wednesday I was good. Well Wednesday needs to be taken off the calendar. That is the day I want to eat all the things. Sometimes I do ok, sometimes not. Last¬†week was a not. Ok it wasn’t the worst early, but..then I had my session with Jeff. I came home and ate like a mad woman! I tried to eat mainly protein, but, come Thursday morning that scale was not my friend ūüė≥ not that I was surprised. I almost always have a gain the day after an intense workout. Friday’s WI was the same as Thursday. Instead of leaving well enough alone, I had to compound it by going out to eat (something I try to never do before WI) and got shrimp and crab….now seafood is good and low points, so overall it’s good choice. Right? But this is Baltimore, Land of Old Bay! ¬†Can we say sodium? Yeah, that wasn’t very well thought out! Add another two pounds on to what it was that morning, when it could have been down. Yep, a whole FOUR pounds up from May….still well below goal and free for the month, but not good, but I did do it to myself….

Last weeks meeting was not very well attended. Very unusual for the first of the month, for sure!

 

I don’t know if it was because it was the week following the holiday and people were out-of-town or if they were in the same boat I was and stayed home.

“The Man” had jokingly said something about¬†going away for the weekend, maybe I should have pushed for it ūüė≥ it might have saved me from myself….or not, but I could have put off weighing for a week, lol!

I left that disaster of a weigh in and headed off to the gym, Jeff and “arm day”! Now Jeff is still insisting a big factor in this gaining is me building muscle and getting stronger. He always reminds me that “he told me this would happen”. I guess that’s an “I told you so”…. He pointed out the work we were doing, the amount of weight I was lifting and working with that day and how much my should stability had improved. I had to agree with that. My upper body has always been my weak spot, but after he said something I was able to see and realize how much better it is. Maybe he is half right?

I am going to try to ride this out, but I must say it is hard!!!!

I have to keep saying this to myself, everyday!¬†For those on their own journey, how are you doing? Do you have your own mantra? What keeps you going when the going gets tough? Now that it’s “almost” summer, do you find it easier or harder to stay on a plan? Let me know what you think!

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I am off now with Miss Quinn. We are heading out to my little Noah’s end of the year picnic! This is last full week of school. He will only go two half days next week. Where has the time gone?

Until the next time

Janet

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Training Plan(s)

I wonder what Jeff has in store for me next

I am running a marathon in October, but you most of you already know that. Last Monday I started (sort of) a new training plan. A plan to take me into the summer. I am part of the Another Mother Runner tribe. Periodically during the year we can elect to participate in five-week fun challenge plans called stride plans. I almost always sign up. Can’t say I always finish, but I start…..

Here is the current plan-Stride into Summer


Now I think I’ve told you before I have used training plans, I just don’t follow them to the letter….remember “my way”? Yeah that’s me….that song was even playing at the gym a couple of weeks ago when I went in for a session with Jeff…

Here is how my first week actually went.


Now I really did have every intention of starting Monday off on the right foot, and going for a walk after taking Noah to the bus stop. However, Miss Quinn decided she wasn’t going to walk, and dragging kids wasn’t part of the plan….I guess carrying her could have been considered strength training, hahaha. I didn’t push the issue and didn’t go later because to tell the truth my rump was sore from my workout with Jeff on Saturday and I didn’t run Sunday (mother’s day) either… (that’s why we switched leg day to Wednesday and arms to Saturday). I have a feeling leg day is going to become quite a “pain in the rear”….

I also started working on my marathon training plan. This stride plan will end the week before I need to start serious full marathon training. My goal is/was that it will help me build my base. Now I just need to dig in, set it up, and make it work!

Here is the plan I used for my first/last marathon.


As you can see some thing got messed up in the first couple of weeks (don’t ask me how), so I will need to go back and fix them, but for getting it together purposes; it works. I haven’t completely decided if I am going to use this same plan, try a different one, or modify this one (ok this is modified, lol). But since my workout schedule and intensity with Jeff has changed I will need to modify it even more to accommodate that. Back then I was only working out with Jeff for 30 minute¬†sessions¬†every other week. When he went out on his own we went to one hour ever other week. Last fall I upped¬†it every week for an hour, and now we are at twice a week for an hour. We have been at this schedule for three weeks now. I haven’t died yet….but I wasn’t so sure I was going to survive last Wednesdays deadlifts. I ended up lifting 155×6 total for my heaviest lifts.

Now the plan, apparently, was to go for three. Jeff, neglected to tell me that (so it’s his fault) and after one I put it down. Then he told me he wanted three. The most I had done at that weight was two. I couldn’t pull the third one a few weeks ago. Well, I regrouped and started again; one, two, and I thought I was going to hurl on three! Seriously. For real. I’m not sure if I ate too much before going, or if it was what I ate. I had a brain blurp, didn’t think, and had some fried stuff (which I don’t eat very often to begin with) or if it was because I had a new weight belt.

My son, DIL, and granddaughter gave me a nice new belt for Mother’s Day.


I think it’s going to take years to break it in. I had not been convinced it was the correct size and after thinking I was going to lose my cookies, I’m still not. They ordered a small and I cannot get it past that first hole, on my own. I was able to go one tighter with my sons help, and it was fine (if I didn’t want to breathe), lol! Along with that, it’s so wide it wedges pretty much between my rib cage and hip bones. Jeff, insisted it was fine….then he got me his, which is a medium, it went all the way to the last hole, wrapped back around me, and was loose….So I guess it’s ok size wise (if I don’t gain an ounce)! I’m not sure my “innards” have recovered yet….

Well, after I thought for sure I was going to lose it or croak, Jeff, insisted I could pull three….apparently somewhere deep down I knew I could too, or I was going to go out trying. I regrouped again, tightened my belt and pulled it; one, two, annnnd three. That’s how I ended up doing 155×6. If I don’t do that again it’ll be too soon. We went on to some ab work and I ended the night with a three-minute plank! Saturday was arm day and I ran on Sunday. I wonder what Jeff, has in store for me next? Maybe I shouldn’t ask….

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Janet

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Change of Mindset

a girls gotta do what a girls gotta do

Thursday “The Man” and I had our¬†annual physical exams. The¬†doctor that we have seen for the past few years has left the practice so we saw someone new. Since my weight has been up a little this month, it was of course up there too. This new person I saw, actually a nurse practitioner, told me I didn’t need to lose anymore weight (which overall I agree with) or lose the couple of pounds to get back to where I was. Is it time to change my way of thinking? Have I been too fixated on a number?

Saturday morning I headed off to the meeting of the #saturday7amsocialclub¬†AKA Weight Watchers. Since this was the first meeting of May I had to weigh in to establish my free lifetime status for the month.¬†¬†As expected I was up a couple of pounds from my April weigh in. However, when I looked back, I was actually a bit less than I was in May of 2016 when I was carb loading for running the five half marathons in five weeks. So at the end of the day, I guess, I am ok. Last year I had planned that I would be up for the weigh in but¬†I still had a hard time with it mentally. I don’t think you can work hard to lose weight and not be upset with an up number, even if you know why. If there is a solution for that; please let me in on it!

After the meeting I headed off to my session with, my trainer, Jeff. We talked about my “gain”. Jeff is still pretty sure this gain is from adding muscle weight and not a “real” weight gain. He said “there is no way to lift like I have been, fuel properly, and not gain weight”.¬†These are things that I know in my mind. But I’m still not completely convinced that this is where this gain is from; even though I know I have stayed with in my WW points; I also know that I have not always eaten the best food choices the past month.

So I will continue to track my food intake on the WW app, as usual, but I am also going to use the “old fashioned” way and put pen to paper. That way I can just glance back through and see what I did. I will also be tracking my exercise and weight lifting ūüŹč more than I have been.

In 2016 WW came out with the “beyond the scale” campaign. The idea behind it is to focus on the whole you not just the number on the scale. That is easier said than done especially when you are trying to lose weight. I will try. Since my goal isn’t to lose, I must now shift my thinking. I just know that I have to keep working the plan and working my training.

I will get my head wrapped around it and make this work.

After my “mental health” session and some warm up, it was time to get to work. Last week I told you I was going to start working with Jeff twice a week instead of once. This was the first week for that. I will now be working with him in Wednesday and Saturdayūüė≥! Whose idea was this? What was I thinking? Lol! Wednesday was arm day so Saturday was leg day….squats, squats, and more squats, lol! We kept the weight low and just did a lot of reps! The video below is the last set at the highest ¬†weight we used; 85lbs. I had already done 5 sets of 5 at this weight. This one was to go as many as I could. Jeff stopped me at 12; I was going for 15!

‚ÄčI need to work on getting down a hair lower on these squats. It’s amazing, and mind boggling just how much stuff you need to do/remember to get everything right. Much of it of course is to help prevent injury. No one has ever accused me of being overly coordinated so remembering to put it all together and execute it is a challenge in itself. Picking up heavy stuff is the easy part, hahaha.

I teased Jeff that I was still able to walk around town in heels after leg day. He said he didn’t do his job then….I got up Sunday morning and thought I was going to die, ok not quite, but I could sure feel it! (DOMs) delayed onset muscle soreness is a real thing!!!! I was still able to wear heels though…a girls gotta do what a girls gotta do!

How are things going for you? Have you experienced weight gains from building muscle after losing weight? How have you reconciled it in your head? Did you find it easy or hard? Do you have any thoughts, tips, or ideas? I’d love to hear from you.

I will, of course, keep you updated.

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Janet

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Pulling Your Head Out Of Your Backside

What do you do to pull yourself out of a slump

 

How do you do it? My head, heart, and body are not in sync. Which has been in evidence this past month. Why? I don’t rightly know. I have been trying for the past couple of months to figure it out. The closest I’ve come to any idea is: that I have, finally, ¬†allowed the life changing events that started last summer steer me off course.

I will go to the #saturday7amsocialclub tomorrow morning and I will have to weigh in to establish my free lifetime status for May. I will do that, but I will be up a few pounds from April’s weigh in. Why? I’m not completely sure. I haven’t tracked well this month, but I know I haven’t gone off the deep end with junk either. I don’t know why I haven’t tracked well. Is it just one more thing to do? Could I be starting to gain muscle mass from the heavy lifting? Jeff, said that I would eventually. Maybe, but I don’t think that is it. At least not completely.

I just have to BELIEVE that it will all balance out.

My New Training Journal

I also feel like I’ve lost my source(s) of support. I started this journey over three years ago. At that time I was not in it alone. I had a WW buddy, a workout buddy, and running buddies. That changed last summer. I was determined not to let those changes affect me. But I am fearing they are. Slowly I have let them. I have thrown myself a “Pity Party”.

This says it all

Now it is up to me to say “enough is enough” and figure out how to snap out of it. This has always been a marathon, not a sprint. So at this point I have decided to think of it in race terms.¬†I have “hit the wall” around mile 20. Now I have to dig deep and power through to get to the finish line. The only difference is; there is no finish line.

I have done this before, on my own. So why should this be any different?

Technically I still have a meeting room full of WW buddies and I treasure them; I know that I can message any of them at anytime, but it’s not the same. I guess you could call my trainer, Jeff, a workout buddy; but I pay him (to torture me) so I’m not sure that counts, lol! Truth be told if it weren’t for my meetings and workouts with Jeff, I would have likely given up long ago.

Last night I went to my Thursday night yoga class. It has been quite a while since I was last at that class. Ironically, Dave, the instructor said something about how it was much easier and better to practice in a group vs alone at home. This is so true. I try to practice yoga at home, but don’t get very far. The energy is so different in the studio. That’s how I have been feeling in general, I guess, over this portion of my journey. It was much easier, better, and enjoyable with the buddy system.

I must pull my head out of my rumpus if I plan to run a marathon, that’s for sure. And I am determined to do that.

I have started by getting a new training journal and looking at a training plan. I told you I have increased my sessions with Jeff (they say what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger). We will see about that!

I have been trying to be a long distance buddy for a friend who’s on her own journey. I’m not sure I have been a very good buddy for her. I hope I can do better.

What do you do to pull yourself out of slump? Do you like “going it alone” or having a partner? Have you been in this same boat? If so, how have you handled it? Let me know your thoughts. If you have any suggestions; throw them at me!

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Janet

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Saturday Strength Training Workout 

I was just a bit preoccupied

This was not my¬†typical Saturday. I did attend the meeting of the #saturday7amsocialclub, then headed off to my Saturday morning “torture-uh-training” session with Jeff, as usual. I was anticipating¬†this was going to be a rough workout. I¬†watched¬†what Jeff was doing off and all week on social media and had visions of what was to come….fortunately it was a bit rainy, so somethings didn’t go quite as what he may¬†have had planned. And mind you, I am not complaining! Lol.

It was dead lift week, but we didn’t go too heavy this week. Jeff, wanted to keep it light and work on speed, so we kept the weight at “only” 115 lbs. ¬†Now tell me; ¬†who needs to pick up heavy things fast? Isn’t that like an oxymoron or something?

After we were¬†finished, Jeff, remembered he hadn’t taken pictures and decided, I should do one more set so he could make the video below. He said this was a good training/learning video because it shows me rounding my shoulders instead of keeping my back flat and shoulders locked. I’m curious if that is because we had already done a lot of work and I was getting fatigued and would it have looked different early on? Definitely¬†something to focus on and look at. This week I’m not so sure.

I was just a bit preoccupied, over tired, and had considered canceling (I’ve only done that once or twice when I was too sick to go). If you read yesterday’s post you know why. If not you can read it here: www.grandma2glamma.com/things-don’t-always-go-as-planned

Let me know if you can see and play the video. This is something new I’m trying, and I am not sure it is going to play.

We briefly talked about the possibility of training for and competing in a power-lifting meet. I have half seriously been considering it, but I also know the possibility is¬†off the table since¬†I was selected for the marathon and have to¬†train for that. I think I have decided to go for it once the marathon is over, so, I wanted to start getting an idea of what to work for. I even went so far as to look up the state records for my age and weight class; there aren’t any….I messaged Jeff what I found¬†and he said there must be something and he was going to check. Now really; how many 50+ ladies does he think are rushing to pick up “super heavy stuff”? Only us crazies ūüėú with 20 something trainers, who pick up heavy stuff! I checked three different power-lifting federations (?) records and found nothing for MD. I don’t know if Jeff, checked or not, but he hasn’t got back to me with any other information! I should be good to go, right? Lol! It doesn’t hurt to have a plan. It’s even better if you execute said plan.

Seriously though, I can only train for¬†one of these at a time. I will continue lifting and strength training, because it¬†will help with running¬†however,¬†the amount of cardio involved with running¬†affects me being able to train harder for lifting. It does give me time to work on my form and getting stronger. So that is the plan, or at least it’s my plan. Who knows what Jeff will think… My bench press is definitely my weakest link and will need the most work. For some reason in my mind that is the scariest. I think I have a fear of dropping the bar on me….Maybe I better get to work on those push ups….ūüė≥I definitely have some shoulder instability, so I should probably work on that. I’m also not the most coordinated person ever. Jeff, has said that has improved though…maybe a tad….somedays.

We shall see.

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Janet

 

 

 

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Muddling Along

Not great but a start in the right direction

It has been a long and challenging week or at least the end to last week was! Remember I told you last week about the hit run involving “The Mans” car? Well somewhere along the way I gave into temptations and had a few days of a “free for all”.

I got up Saturday morning and headed off to the meeting of the #Saturday7amsocialclub¬†up a full 6 pounds from my first of the month weigh in and 5 full pounds from where I was on Wednesday morning!!! After that, off I went to meet with Jeff, my trainer. He was very supportive, and tried to make me feel better by telling me I was just carb-loading for our workout, lol! Now had that really been the case; yes, I would have gained that amount of weight and been “almost” ok with it. But, even I knew better. Of course there were plenty of carbs involved, along with fat and salt and other bits of junk!!!!

He worked my rear off….but then that is nothing new. I did leave ready to get it together. I had decided on Friday that enough was enough and started getting back to my regular way of eating, but lets face it; one day does not undo the damage. We skipped our Saturday date night. I know I had to leave it be. I was also planning on getting “The Man” to take me to breakfast on Sunday (yes there was a method to my madness, Lol). Two meals out was not feasible, under the circumstances. Considering part of the problem was eating take out several days last week, even one meal was pushing it.

I got up Sunday morning and weighed. I usually don’t do that on Sunday; I give the scale a day of rest. I had lost 1 of those interloping pounds. It almost made me rethink going out for breakfast; after all it was a holiday too and I knew what was on the menu for that.

We went anyway and went back to the “Iron Rooster” restaurant I told you about a couple of weeks ago. It was such a beautiful spring morning that they had the glass doors open and outside seating available. We weren’t quite sure about sitting outside so early in the morning yet, so we sat next to the open doors. It was a great mix of fresh air and sunshine.

We got one of those yummy homemade pop tarts to share again and I ordered the sausage gravy biscuit this time. There was only one biscuit, but it was HUGE!!!! I only  ate half of it and brought the rest home. I thought I would eat it later, but did not.

Doesn’t this look just too yummy? And trust me; it is!


On the way home I received a text from Jeff. He was sending some extra workout sets for this week!!! Can you believe that? Didn’t he have anything better to do on Easter Sunday morning? What was he doing spying on me? Maybe I shouldn’t have posted those pictures to instagram, in hopes of winning a gift card for another trip, lol!

Now if you notice, this says Monday. Does that mean I only need to do it one day, haha? ¬†I haven’t heard otherwise, or received another text; as of yet, so? I should probably be careful what I say….I did do it Monday and Tuesday, so far, along with my other workouts; some I haven’t done in a while. He should be proud! Right? Of course, right!

Mondays weigh in was the same as Sundays, so I didn’t do too bad. As of this morning, I am happy to say I have rid myself of a bit more than two of those offending pounds. Not great, but a good start in the right direction. Now to keep the momentum going. Do you think Jeff’s extra curricula activities have contributed?

I have got back on the right food track, at least so far. How did I do it? Well, for starters I refused to go to the grocery store this week. We have enough food in this house to last through a “zombie apocalypse” so you can bet no on is going to go without. I knew a trip to the store would result in more junk food than real food (“The Man” is a junk food junkie, of the worst kind) being bought. By not bringing it in, it can’t be eaten. And lets face it; he doesn’t need it either. I think he insists on going to the store with me because he knows that’s the only way he will junk, lol!

How did you fare over the holiday? Are you fighting to get back on track, or did you have a plan and stick to it? Let me know! We are in the together!

I’m not sure if I’m going to participate in the style challenges for this week. I think it might be too much. We are gearing up for the arrival of the new grand little on Friday. This weekends challenge is: Date Night. If I manage of this weeks, it might be that; providing we go out and the weather is cooperative. That will be the challenge, this week.

I do have some new looks and ideas I want to share with you. I have been approached by Covered Perfectly (I’ve told you about them, previously, and showed some of my own items) to collaborate with them, and have accepted. I am so excited for this opportunity. Stay tuned for more to come.

The blog is now also being featured in the http://40plusstyle.com/women-over-40-blogger-community under lifestyle bloggers. You can go over there and check it out along with a great group of other bloggers.

I think I told you about¬†joining The Fierce 50 Revolution, and hope to become one of the bloggers on the The Fierce 50 Campaign soon. If you would like to know about The Fierce 50 or join the revolution; you can request to join the Facebook page “The Fierce 50 Revolution”! What a great group of women! Many are blogger, but many are not. It’s a great group women lifting each other up!

Have you signed up for the email list yet? I will not sell or give your email away, it’s just so you will be the first to know when a new blog has been posted. I am trying to grow the subscriber list here on the blog along with Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest, and Instagram. You have helped so much with that; by liking, commenting, and sharing my posts. Facebook is closing in on 500 likes! Wow! That’s small compared to some, but it’s growing each day. I appreciate all your support and help.

You know I love hearing from you, so let me know what you think about all these latest “developments”.

Until the next time

Janet

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April Style Challenge Hiding your Belly

Bring on the “mom jeans”

This month, in the style workshop, we are learning what to wear or how to wear clothing to hide those lumps, bumps, and jiggly bits that often appear after a certain age. They may be¬†inevitable, but do we want to show them to the world? Do you want to sit around in some super tight “shape wear” all day to hold it all in? Or would you prefer to be comfortable while camouflaging the rest?

Instead of doing a daily showing/modeling of our selections like last month, we are breaking it up some. Many agreed that it would be more manageable and easier for some to participate.

I have shown you pictures and bared¬†my jiggly wiggly bits with you before, in my¬†before and after photos. I do that to show where I was, and that I although I have lost a significant amount of weight and workout regularly, I do not have a perfect body. While I am proud of how far I’ve come, and I am ok with me and my body, I don’t want those lumps and bumps to show in every outfit I wear either.

As we¬†get older, it’s more likely that most of us will not have a perfect body, even if you have never been overweight. At some point you will lose some muscle tone, and your skin loses elasticity. If you have been active and keep it up, you may fare better than some.

This picture was one of the outfits from last months style challenge. You can see the jiggly parts of my belly and loose skin here. These pants are boyfriend jeans from JJill. They are considered mid-rise, but are low enough that they allow my loose skin to pucker over the top of the waist band. The shirt is also fitted around the bottom, which allows that belly puckering to shine. ¬†The idea of the cardigan is to create a look of thirds instead of a 1/2 ratio. It can also help to camouflage the mid section. Because I am holding it open here; you don’t see that. If the pants had a higher rise it wouldn’t be noticeable either. Bring on the “mom jeans”!!! They are making a comeback, you know.

The picture below was taken at the exact three-year date from my before picture, which is yesterdays post: www.grandma2glamma.com/the-post-that-started-it-all I am wearing the same jeans as above, but with a long sleeve t-shirt. You can still see some of the lumps and bumps, but because the shirt isn’t as tight at the bottom, they aren’t¬†quite as noticeable.

In the photos below those jiggly wiggly bits are not noticeable, but they haven’t gone anywhere, and I’m not wearing torture garments underneath.

Here I am wearing my Legging Army leggings. These are very comfortable and not spandex “suck you in, hold you in” fabric. They are in fact rather loose-fitting. They do have a high waist that covers your belly, but does nothing to hold it in. If you would like to check out Legging Army you can do so here: www.leggingarmy.com/#grandma2glamma The top has a high/low hem, although it isn’t noticeable in the picture. Because it’s a tunic type top, it is fuller and skims the body, so it doesn’t cling to the imperfections. The long necklace also helps to create a vertical line.

This dress below is somewhat fitted, but also drapes enough that it skims the body and doesn’t show off the jiggly bits so much. This is without “foundation garments”. If it were more fitted, the look would be completely different. Those “hold ’em in, suck ’em in” things are needed on occasion, but who wants to wear them every day?

This is that same pair of boyfriend jeans, with a looser fitting shirt. I have also used the “half tuck” here and those lumps and bumps are not noticeable. They haven’t gone anywhere, but they are hidden.

I like these jeans, that’s why I have them. They are the only pair I own that have that low of a rise. I usually don’t buy pants with a low-rise, because of the loose skin over hang. I don’t want to walk around feeling like I need to “tuck in my tummy”. This months exercise is good for helping you to learn to work with and style the body you have.

It’s good for me because the lower belly is where I have the most loose, flabby skin. That’s from having three children (one by c-section) and being overweight and stretching it out. Honestly it isn’t as bad as it could be (I am fortunate) but there’s no amount of working out that will be able to help what’s left either, at least not significantly. That doesn’t mean I will not continue to work out. I can still get stronger and tone my muscles, but I don’t have unrealistic expectations either.

Remember you can sign up for Sylvia’s newsletter at www.40plustyle.com if you haven’t already. You can also get on the waiting list for the course and join the¬†Facebook group.

Our next exercise is “how to dress for a weekend away”. Boy this one should be interesting! Remember last months capsule wardrobe idea? Yeah, I have not learned how to make that work to go away yet, lol!

Let me hear from you. Tell me what you think about a¬†“hide your belly” workshop. Is this something that you need to do or learn? What are your tricks?

Do you have any exciting plans for the weekend? We don’t have any real plans, but I hope to get out and about and into something, lol!

Until the next time

Janet

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The Post That Started It All

My hope is that my story will help or encourage someone

Good morning! Today, as I approach almost 60 blog posts, I just want to take a moment to share the Facebook post that birthed this blog.

On January 8, 2017 I shared the photo below, along with a little “thank you” with SusanAfter60, on her Facebook page. She posted to her page and her previous page Fifty, not frumpy, (Susan, was the first blogger I started following). I was shocked that she shared with the world, lol, and even more so when the comments started! There was a tremendous response and a flurry of personal messages, with ladies asking me to tell my entire story, wanting to know if I had my own blog, and encouraging me to start one. I still occasionally get responses and comments on these posts.

Just want to take a minute to thank you for all the inspiration. This is my before and after-70 lbs that I’ve maintained for two years. The outfit in the after is from WHBM and the booties by Vince Camuto (now if I could a photographer as good as Mr. Mickey you might could see them,lol).

After a couple of days of retelling my story, as the messages came in, I contacted Susan to see if I could post it to for everyone to see. She graciously agreed. Below is the rest of the story, which was published/posted on January 11th.

Susan, thank you for allowing me to share my story here.
For those who have asked about my weight loss story; here it is:
I lost my weight with weight watchers. This is the only weight loss plan I have ever tried/used.
This recent transformation was not my first rodeo. I lost 30 lbs in the mid 90’s with WW. I was able to keep it off for several years, but then I went back to work in Corporate America and over time life happened. I gained it all back. Eventually I went back to WW and made it back to within a few pounds of my goal weight, but the meeting that I attended (which worked with my work schedule) closed. I tried to keep going on my own, but it wasn’t long before those pounds found their way back and brought along some friends.
In 2011 I “retired” from my job to watch my new grandson. It wasn’t until 2014 at almost 51 that I made the decision to return to WW. I hadn’t developed any of the problems that come with aging or being overweight, yet, but some of my numbers were starting to creep up. It was time to make a change.
I come from a family of short, round, southern women who liked to cook. They had many health issues that while could be hereditary were also a direct result of diet and obesity. Ironically, they always wanted to know what someone else weighed, but had little regard for themselves, and they weren’t really worried about anyone else’s health, just who weighed the most….
I have come to realize, for me, attending WW meetings and weighing in weekly are keys for me. As a lifetime member, I only have to WI once per month, be no more than two pounds above my goal weight, and I no longer have to pay a fee. I still go weekly. It’s my “me time” and helps to keep me focused for the week ahead.
Weight Watchers works for me, because I like to eat and love that I can eat what I want, lose weight and now maintain it. I have not “had” to give up any foods that I like or want to eat. I decide whether I want it or not. That makes it easier. I have made changes to the way I prepare some foods, but some days I just want some good old-fashioned comfort food and southern cooking. When I do, I have it and move on. The one thing I have completely eliminated from my diet, is soda. I was never a big soda drinker, but after going some time without it, I can’t stand the taste of it now.
I know WW isn’t for everyone, and finding what works for you is the key to weight loss and being successful! So if you’re looking to lose a few pounds, find what works for you.
As for exercise, I have always been the poster child for inactivity, not because I didn’t want to or like to, but as a child my mother never allowed me to be active or participate in sports and such (a story for Freud or Jung, along with the weight issues, lol).
For many years, though, I walked for exercise. When I made the decision to lose weight, this time, I joined a gym that offered different fitness classes. I started with yoga (I dearly love it). The gym I joined also offered personal trainers. After a complimentary session I decided I could benefit from some help. I was lucky to find a trainer who was willing to work with my limitations and modify exercises if needed. Although I am physically healthy I had/have some limits. Never being active, makes one not the most coordinated or balanced and not very confident. Then being 50+ and having three kids (TMI, but your bladder isn’t what it once was). Finding the right person who can work with you and with your current limits (if any) can help and strengthen those areas that are causing problems. After all that I started running with my daughter and DIL! Yes, I’m certifiable!!! I have gone on to run 8 half marathons, a full marathon, and several 5 and 6 Ks. I am now starting to work on power lifting (I needed a new challenge).
All in all I think the key to any exercise is finding what you like (if you don’t enjoy it, you won’t do it), and finding the right person to instruct you. My trainer will nudge me out of my comfort zone, but he will never push me to go beyond what I can do.
I hope this has helped some. I’m sure I have left something out. If you have any other questions or if can be of any help, please contact me!

From here the thought of writing a blog kept rolling around in my head, until one day I decided to give it a go. I sat down and started looking for a blog site. I found one, set it up, and on January 27th I made my the first post. I thought this was going to be easy peasy….HA! I never thought I would be trying to learn so many new things all at once! It has been fun and crazy all at the same time, especially the past few weeks as I’ve found so many new things to learn.

I have periodically thought, through the years, that I might enjoy writing; and I do. I never thought anyone would want to read what I had to say or that I would be any good at it. I’m still not too sure about that, Lol!! But I am doing it and enjoying it.

I hope you have enjoyed reading my posts as much as I have writing them for you. I look forward to bringing you many more.

My hope is that my story will help or encourage someone to maybe take that step they’ve been thinking about; whether it be to lose weight, start exercising or trying something new. I hope you see that just because you may be over 50; you can lose weight, become physically fit, and you don’t have to dress like your grandmother (unless you want to). A part of my blog is on fashion or style. You cannot lose a significant amount of weight and not need to rethink your wardrobe, and buy new clothes. This is true at any age! Even if you haven’t hit that “certain age” yet, you will have changes you need to make along your journey. Don’t get caught up in the “rut”!

Over the past few weeks, the subscriber list is growing; as is the Facebook page. That’s because you have taken time to like, share, and comment on posts that you like. That helps more people to see the posts. I have also added a Twitter, Pinterest, and Instagram. Soon I am going to add some live videos. Yes, you will get to see me live! Oh my, that should be interesting!!! Apparently Facebook is now making video postings a priority….

Please take a moment to tell me what you think and how you are doing on road to success and better health.

Until the next time

Janet

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Marathon Training has Commenced

Don’t Think Just Go

Saturday morning came and off I went to the weekly meeting of the¬†#saturday7amsocialclub AKA Weight Watchers.¬†¬†It was the first meeting of the month and I had to weigh in to establish my free lifetime status for April. I did that successfully, but I was up 1 lb from my March weigh in. In actuality I was down from where I had been the week before. I had a couple of weeks of eating and enjoying too much “stuff”.

I left there and headed off to the gym and my regularly scheduled session with, my personal trainer, Jeff. Who promptly informed me; “I’ve shifted gears in your training regime, we have a marathon to get ready for”. Really? What? No, we have plenty of time, really we do; I mean it’s 30 weeks away, really it is, I’ve done the math. Granted, it was “old math” not that “new math” so there may be some margin for error, but…..Uh huh! Let’s go pick up some heavy stuff…we are going to do squats; well of course we are…what’s new?

So off we went to warm up and get started; with back squats. Do you know what back squats are? Yeah, you squat with a bar of weights on your shoulders….but Jeff is kind-hearted, we start with the just the bar and no weights…it is only 45 pounds. Then after a set of those, usually 8 reps, we start adding weight. This week we maxed it at 95 pounds¬†(I should be grateful he had uttered 100+ lbs). I did two sets of 5 reps, then on the third set he told me to do the max I could. I made it to 15 reps before he stopped me! Apparently that wasn’t enough squats, we moved on to goblet squats. He gave me a 22.5 pound¬†dumbbell to start with. I laughed at him…it honestly felt like air. I guess after 95 pounds?….. The next time it might not feel so lite…and I probably should have just rolled with it; he grabbed a 40 pounder (you probably shouldn’t laugh at your trainer)! Even that started out feeling pretty lite, until we got to the end. I guess I have gotten stronger, just don’t tell Jeff! We’ll keep it our secret.

My daughter, Amanda, and I talked about how we had to get back to our Sunday runs. We planned to get up and go early ish Sunday morning. I woke up at 2:30 and couldn’t get back to sleep. By 3:30 I gave up and got out of bed. Anticiapation? Hahaha….By the time it was daylight I had talked myself into not going this week. After all, I have time. Amanda, got up and talked herself into waiting too. I headed up stairs, and looked at my running shoes. I have motivational tags on them that say:


So what could I do? I got myself ready and headed downstairs, and asked if she was ready. What? “I thought we were going to wait”? Yeah, no, don’t think-just¬†go! And off we went. Two miles. Ok, Amanda, did two miles. I left her and logged another half a mile. I just had too. Once I get out the door, most of the time I can add to what I planned to do; unless it’s during hard-core training. Then I do what the plan calls for. All in all it was a good run. It was a bit chilly, but not too cold, the sun was out. That always makes it better. Sunday Runday has returned! I hope I’m this excited in September when I have to do a 20 mile training run!

Almost home!

Selfies are not my forte’. Moving selfies even less, so lol!

Yesterdays run was not fast by any stretch. Ok, none of my runs are ever fast, but this one was back to some slower times. I played around with my intervals and backed my run time and walk time down. I am hoping to tweak it to help increase my speed. Since I have a bit of time to work with it, now is a good time to start. I took my run time back too far, so next week I will bring it back up some, and leave the walk time where it’s at. I’ll keep you posted on the results.

One of my running mottos/mantras. I got this just before I ran my first marathon. I have always played that George Jones song: “I Don’t Need Your Rocking Chair” several times during my runs. It keeps me going. That’s in part what the saying is for. The other reason is I had not run that marathon yet, but the girls (my daughter and DIL) had run their first one already. Since I’m a slow runner, the turtle, and I was on my way. I was running towards that goal.

So that was my weekend. What did you do fun this weekend? I’d love to hear from you! Who’s ready to start training with me? I promise we will go slow.

Remember you can follow me on Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest, and Instagram. They are all growing like crazy, and that’s because y’all have been liking and sharing my adventures. I really appreciate that.

Until the next time

Janet

 

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